by ThunderHorse » Sat Dec 08, 2012 3:23 am
To Needing Direction:
Constructive Desertion is defined differently in different jursicticons, and differently in different courtrooms in the same jurisdiction. You can search "Constructive Desertion" on the internet.
You can open your own checking account, and have your paycheck deposited to your new checking account, and the make deposits to your joint checking account, as needed. It may be important to be sure your wife is not signing checks from your new account. You should probably get legal advise as to how to set up savings, for if/when conflicts about money increase.
Part of getting a wife back, is gaining respect from your wife, by exerting your power to protect your self-interests. If your wife is not sufficiently interested in her marriage to you, then you need to look forward to your future obligations. You may get married to a woman who has children, who does not get along with your daughter. You will have obligations to your new wife and her children. One of the advantages of your wife coming back to her marriage to you, is that your loyalties to your daughter will be maintained. Conversely, your wife now needs to understand that she is cutting, or diminishing, your ties/obligations to her daughter, and you need to be sure that your wife understands the full consequences of her actions.
Your wife does not seem to have the idea that the court may order the family home sold. There are some professional looking signs you can buy, "For Sale By Owner" You can have a very high asking price, if anyone asks to buy the house.
Can you afford to have a safe deposit box or a storage loacker outside the home?
Unfortunately, to let your wife realize the full consequences of her actions, you need to appear a little selfish. You need to be ready to smoothly handle, and expalin that your future wife may not allow you to spend time or money on your daughter. What about your wife's living relatives? Your wife must have some circle of friends who are encouraging your wife to disrespect her marriage to you. Can you keep good relations with those relatives who seem to support her marriage to you?
I will stop giving you ideas on foreplay, for now.
The more ways you can demonstrate your powers, the More 180 Degree Divorce Busters, and the more of an afrodesiac for your wife.
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