Erectile dysfunction and porn
Posted: Wed Jan 09, 2013 1:43 pm
Hello
My husband is only 40 yrs old and is suffering from erectile dysfunction. He has been turning to porn because he says he does not feel the pressure to perform in front of me. I told him i dont want to put pressure on him and that we can try new things and take our time when we are intimate, and that it does not have to include intercourse. He still watches porn regurlarly, something he did not do when we first got married and he did not have erectile dysfunction at that time.. I feel rejected and undesired. I also feel guilty, because i know part of the reason is his stress to perform in front of me... I dont know how else i can help him and us... We have two young children of 16 months and two months... But we can always have some time for ourselves...Any advice?
My husband is only 40 yrs old and is suffering from erectile dysfunction. He has been turning to porn because he says he does not feel the pressure to perform in front of me. I told him i dont want to put pressure on him and that we can try new things and take our time when we are intimate, and that it does not have to include intercourse. He still watches porn regurlarly, something he did not do when we first got married and he did not have erectile dysfunction at that time.. I feel rejected and undesired. I also feel guilty, because i know part of the reason is his stress to perform in front of me... I dont know how else i can help him and us... We have two young children of 16 months and two months... But we can always have some time for ourselves...Any advice?