by ThunderHorse » Sun Mar 08, 2015 11:47 am
What may be important is how you reply to her comments.
It seems she is not rejecting your advances, so her comment that you enjoy relations with her, can be positive.
Maybe a response showing that you are attracted to her, "Yes, I am attracted to you. I find you very attractive. I really enjoy relations with you, anytime we have time to enjoy each other."
"Is now a good time for you?" Some women just want to be hugged or kissed more often, outside of passionate times.
Her comment seems like a test question. Project a loving feeling for her.
There are threads on listening to women. Under Communications, "Listening strategies for men." There are also threads on compliments for women. There are two chapters on listening in SECRETS OF HAPPILY MARRIED MEN book.
Maybe continue to encourage your wife to talk about her ideas, and find openings to give compliments. If there is something that she wants to change, she may give you more hints, as you encourage her to talk more, every day.
You may want to brush up on your massage and foreplay techniques. Search erotic acupressure. Maybe she is saying she is not always in the mood, when marital relations occur, by "You are sooner than others in the past".
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