I don't know what to do about this. I know it's not fair, but sometimes I just can't look at my husband because he looks and acts like his father.
I hate his father because he's always tried to interfere in our marriage. After 15 years of ignoring things, or warning my father in law when he's crossed the line, everything just exploded. My father in law complained to my husband that I wasn't obedient to him. He complained that I won't kiss him. He didn't like how I disciplined my male children, how I ran my house, that I handled finances, etc. My husband said nothing. Needless to say, I was angry with him about this.
That incident happened about 3 years ago. Since then, my husband has realised that he should have stood up to his father and stood up for me. But he's yet to do that. Our marriage seems to be good all around except for the inlaws. The only problem is when he's interested in becoming intimate, he makes this face that looks like his father and I just want to puke. Or give him a good kick. I don't know how to get over this.