by Hremom » Fri Jan 02, 2009 2:53 am
Studies show that hurtful words are remembered longer than loving words. There-for, forgiving him is a matter of you deciding to forgive, but forgetting......... that may never happen. Or it may just take time. The best thing he can do to help you is continue to give you loving words and actions, especially at time when you are feeling so sensative due to pregnancy.
And for your part, be honest with yourself. How attracted to him would you be if he gained a bunch of weight? Especially if it was in a short amount of time (that does make a difference, slowly it's not as shocking, quickly, you're like "whoah, what happened?") Since you know your figure is important to him, try to make sure you two do some physical activity together to help you both stay fit....... and healthy enough to run after those twins you are having.
Good luck with those babies and your marriage.