how long do I wait

[joealoha]

My wife and I couldn't make love from the ending of her 2nd trimester. It's been 10 months since. We did have relations at about the 8 month. But I can count the amount of times we did it on one hand. Also she wants me to hurry and she is not into it. So it's more like having sex instead of making love. I try to be romantic. Candles, flowers, massage...
We used to do it at least 1-2 times a week before she got pregnant. Now I feel like a sperm doner sometimes. Is there anything I could do?

[ThunderHorse]

List out some creative options to try.

You do not mention massage, as an arousal technique.

Have you searched Arousal and Foreplay on the Intenet? What have you tried that does not work for her? What else cna you try?

Women are slow to get aroused. That is good you are giving gifts. You do not mention your 15 minutes of unconditonal listening skills. I am thinking about a thread with comments for men to give women the idea of acknowledging a woman's feelings.

I guess that should be under Communications.

Have you talked to a pharmiacist? There are all sorts of creames, jellies and oils that make intecourse into making love.




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