MangoMan wrote:elizacol & Thunderhorse,
thank you for your replies.
elizacol, you are right I have to leave. Today she went into an abusive tirade ...again, after promising me she would not do it. There are always excuses why she did it, most of them having to do with me, that is I made her do it.
I was relatively calm throughout this episode, tried to reason with her, told her to soften her voice but could not slow down the momentum. In the end, I opted to leave the house for the moment to break the abuse.
She called me a half an hour later as though nothing had happened, her voice as sweet as can be, asking me to return to the house.
Thunderhorse, I was not aware of the stated benefits of Akido. Thank you for that. I will not needed it as I have decided to leave.
Regards.
obentoman wrote:You may do well to check this below website out and determine which personality disorder your wife has. ( My own crappy wife has OCPD ).
http://www.outofthefogsite.com/index.html
Feel free to discuss and reply to my post either publicly or otherwise.
obentoman wrote:Gents:
My reply to you all:
1) Thunderhorse - I cannot IMAGINE why you would find any of a god-damned psycho OCPD woman's activities even mildly amusing or entertaining ! What are you? A glutton for punishment?
2) Thuderhorse again : No way, my OCPD crackpot can never change to be a beter wife/woman - it was my mistake marrying her and I did not know about it till she started treating me like dirt and sending me up the wall with her OCPD holier than thou, perfecter than thou, self righteous, abusive and then "never say-sorry" ways.
OCPD's you must understand, will not even recognise that they have OCPD or any other problem. Remember they are ultra-self righteous ?
It's not their problem, it's always yours. ..... "Honey, it's not me, it's all you !".
And they downright lie - compulsive liars - they will abuse you and disrespect you for their OCPD beliefs and ways....and when you bring it up with them later on ( in a fight ) after a brief period of stone-walling and withdrawal, they will categorically deny that they ever said "such-and-such" of a hurtful thing to you and it was all in your imagination and accuse you that you are an insecure man and are making it up.
Mine is exactly like that and will be that way till the day she dies.
Then when you withdraw from them and show them zero affection, they become all-sweet-and-lovey-dovey as if nothing happened ( minus the much needed apology of course ), .... that's called "Hoovering in that website I shared with you guys ( the out of the fog one ). They are trying to suck you back into a loving relationship again, and when you are most vulnerable they can attack you once again, when their next maniacal attack rage comes around.
Just don't get sucked in again.
OCPD's are total crack pots.
I doubt very much I'd stick to my crazy bitch, once my kid grows up and I don't have to stay together for the kid's sake. She's been threatening divorce close to a 100 times already in the 10 years ( just to win a fight - you can't fight fair with her ) we've been married.
Just you wait....a day will finally come, when I will grant her, her WISH.
She will be totally hideous and old by then, but I will look after myself and still be very desirable. Who is going to have a the last laugh then?
Sick of her sh*t.
obentoman wrote:Gents:
My reply to you all:
Sick of her sh*t.
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