socialdistortion wrote:Dear Thunderhorse,
Maybe watching porn is NOT such a great idea...
Please read "5 Things To Learn About Love Making from Watching Porn" by Paul Joannides, research psychoanalyst, author of Guide To Getting It On, and a speaker on college campuses.
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/you ... aking-pornSocial Distortion
Thank you for the reference. The criticisms of Porn offered in the Psychology Today article seem to be valid criticisms, but are not a comprehensive evaluation of the totality of the merits, and problems. of Porn, for each individual, or each couple, or other Love configurations.
Therapists should probably hold back suggesting Porn for their clients, until the chances of adverse ramifications have been evaluated to seem to be minimal.
On some forums some women feel that porn has been part of a cycle that exposed them to abuse. Porn can be an emotionally charged issue.
Even without emotional connections, there is a strong undercurrent of public purity, that creates the impression that only wierdos enjoy porn. A large number of Men may enjoy and view porn, but deny that the enjoy or view porn, as a matter of privacy. Women may know their men enjoy porn, but also keep their knowledge secret, so other women cannot rely on their female friends, to let them understand the realities of porn.
It is good to use caution with porn. I enjoy porn with my wife, when she seems to be in a tolerant mood.
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