Hi folks. My name is Sean. I am new here and looking forward to getting to know you folsk and looking forward to learning from each of you. I am 21 yrs old. Black Male. in Dallas Texas. I married a lovely White young lady and both of us were virgins on our wedding nite.
She comes from a very strict religious background and they pretty much view sex as bad and only suggest we have sex missionary style. MY issue is that I am overly well endowed and so on our wedding nite she looked in total terror when i started to get undressed. Why we never talked about this before hand but i guess i never even thought about it.
My situation is I of course do not want to cause her any discomfort. I figured I would try to pleasure her orally which I have never done before but was willing to please her. She frowned at me and said thats gross.
So I guess I am wondering what I should do next. Since she has such a negative attitude towards sex which is from her upbringing.
Is it ok for me to masturbate. Should she decide to actually have sex with me, what is the best way for me to penetrate her wthout hurting her.
If any of you have any ideas or thoughts I welcome them.
Thanks
Saen