Hi,
I was wondering if the married men on this forum could help me out here. I have been involved in a Emotional Affair for about 1 year with a close frined who is married.
The whole thing between us started with flirting and lot's of eye contact. We started talking on the phone a couple of day's a week, I always called him. I told him one day of my very strong attraction to him and the feeling was mutal. All of this lead into hugging, some touching and talking about sexual thing's on the phone. I have wanted to go further but he has been afraid to cross that line. Knowing that this is all going NO where, I have ended contact with him for now. I have been unhappy in my marriage and am trying to find a way out that's best for my children.
The thing that bothers me most here is that he does not think that he has cheated on his wife in his words "We did nothing wrong, Most of this was in your head". I think I was played here and it makes me so mad. How can he be so happy in a marriage if he can on the sly talk to me about thing's that two married people should only discuss with their spouse. Any comments would be helpful.