the biggest thing here is my confusion. I love my wife dearly and I tell her this. But she has come up to me recently and told me that she is not happy in our marriage. She says that she loves me, I do not make her unhappy, but she is not happy. She has a male friend that she says she cares for and has feeling for; however, she would never act on them because she does not want to hurt me. Our communication is terrible. . . . I do want to talk when something is bothering either of us; she runs to her friends and will not talk to me. i have talked about seeing a marriage counselor, but she does not want that. We each have our own baggage, and I am not perfect by any stretch of the imagination, but the feelings she has for this friend bothers me. I am looking for advice as to how this should be handled or how people have handled similar situations. Do not hold back with your opinions or questions, I want answers.
Thanks in advance