by ThunderHorse » Wed Apr 10, 2013 9:10 am
Dear Acasqui,
Do you have an engagement ring?
There is a No Contact letter concept. Which, if you feel that your Fiance's relationship with the other woman is having a detrimental effect on your relationship, you can ask your Fiance to limit contact with this woman, and ask him to send her a letter explaining that your Fiance is considering your feelings, that his relationship with you has become distant, as he has gotten closer to the other woman.
What have been your differences? Are you living together? How do you settle your differences? Do you know how to handle and avoid verbal abuse? See a thread under Communication, "My wife is hyper critical, please help!" Does your fiance understand your need to vent, discuss ideas that are turning in your mind?
The secrets of wive's book may be helpful:
THE SECRETS OF HAPPILY MARRIED WOMEN, HOW TO GET MORE OUT OF YOUR RELATIONSIP BY DOING LESS, 2008, BY Haltzman and DiGeronimo
Table of Contents:
1. Know Your Husband
2. Nurture His Needs - and Yours
3. Fight Better
4. Talk Less
5. Have Lots of Sex
6. Take Charge of Your Own Happiness
7. Heal Thyself
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