by ThunderHorse » Sat Jul 20, 2013 10:44 pm
Dear, Black Sheep,
The "Boring Baroque Response" is important to deal with abuse. See a thread under Communication, entitled "My wife is Hyper Critical, Please Help"
Nagging may not be the best approach to deal with your husband's emotional involvement with the Cuba lady.
Are there any extra things you can do for your husband, that could be a point of then making requests from your husband, to spend less time with Cuba?
The Secrets of wive's book may be helpful:
THE SECRETS OF HAPPILY MARRIED WOMEN, HOW TO GET MORE OUT OF YOUR RELATIONSIP BY DOING LESS, 2008, BY Haltzman and DiGeronimo
Table of Contents:
1. Know Your Husband
2. Nurture His Needs - and Yours
3. Fight Better
4. Talk Less
5. Have Lots of Sex
6. Take Charge of Your Own Happiness
7. Heal Thyself
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