ConfusedWife wrote:Dear ThunderHorse,
Thank you for your time and kind reply to my post. It is helpful to ready your reply as I search for possibly some different perspectives on what is happening here. Because I was blind-sided by his relationship with this woman, I am still in shock and realize I may not see this as clearly as a third party would, because I am too emotional.
To answer you, I am afraid to lose my husband because I truly love him. We do also have 4 children who would each be devastated in their own way by a divorce or separation. As a mother, I will always take the children's feelings/suffering into consideration as well as my own. But they are secondary in this situation and the primary must be my husband and I and our relationship. And yes, there would be life changes if a divorce occurred, but again, not a driving factor. All material possessions can be done without or replaced, divided, but I love my husband and to me, he is irreplaceable. We have built a life together as well, one I thought included trust. This is difficult, the lack of trust I now feel for him.
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