The back story is a couple of days ago my wife admitted to me that she was kissed and felt up by a guy friend at work. This guy is married and rather unhappy in his marriage or so I understand it. They talk alot and she has problems with me no satisfying her emotionally. She tells me that this is all that happened and that it wouldn't happen again. Now I was scared at this point. I have been 100% faithful to her and out family and then to here of this. It makes me very sad, not that she did this but that maybe I was the cause of it. Honestly it depresses me. She was talking to me last night and then asked me how would I feel about wife swapping with him and his wife. I'm not sure how to take this. I love my wife dearly but this makes me extremely uncomfortable. I'm not sure that this would help out relationship. I worried about it wreaking it and whats left of his marriage. She admits to having feelings about this man and she finds him very attractive. I'm worried that this is the beginnings of something very bad. To add to all of this mess I'm getting ready to deploy to Iraq early next year. I'm in the Army and I will be gone for a year or longer. We have been married for 5 years now and I thought everything was going ok.
Any advise or comments would be welcome. I just need another perspective.
Thanks all.