My wife is addicted to porn and she has some problems with her self image. She thought that by getting nude pictures of herself made in a porn setting would be sexy. To get her in the mood, the photographer played explicit porn. Sometime during the photo shoot, he engaged in oral sex with my wife. All during the time, he was snapping photos.
I discovered these photos on my wife memory stick four months later.
She said that the porn was like a drug and she wasn’t aware of what was going on until too late, only then did she leave, taking the camera memory card with her. Since the discovery, We are working through this and she has committed to brake her addiction to porn and has been very successful up to date. I am devastated and very hurt. I am very untrusting and angry at her but still love her very much. How do I get past this and get the images that I have seen out of my head?