Wife had nude picture made

[bruce53]

My wife is addicted to porn and she has some problems with her self image. She thought that by getting nude pictures of herself made in a porn setting would be sexy. To get her in the mood, the photographer played explicit porn. Sometime during the photo shoot, he engaged in oral sex with my wife. All during the time, he was snapping photos.
I discovered these photos on my wife memory stick four months later.
She said that the porn was like a drug and she wasn’t aware of what was going on until too late, only then did she leave, taking the camera memory card with her. Since the discovery, We are working through this and she has committed to brake her addiction to porn and has been very successful up to date. I am devastated and very hurt. I am very untrusting and angry at her but still love her very much. How do I get past this and get the images that I have seen out of my head?

[ThunderHorse]

I personally try to incorporate porn on the TV, as background, into love making with my wife. Viagra is popular. It is challenging when a woman hax concerns about her self confidence as sexy. Porn, of some types, may be offensive to one woman or another. My wife compalined, "Those women are so YOUNG!" So I got one titled something like Sexy Grannies.

I am envious that your wife likes porn, because my wife sometimes listens to preachers bad-mouth porn, then I get parts of the anti-porn sermon repeated in my marital bedroom. I shut off the porn, if I get any resistance from my wife. Incorporating porn into your love making may satiate your wife's desire for porn, or that may be unwise.

I have heard of some women enjoying porn of themselves, as opposed to pictures of other women.


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