cold fish is getting cooked
Posted: Fri Aug 06, 2010 2:51 pm
Well here I am nearly 8 months after my first posting for some advice. Still working hard at our relationship but I am feeling like I am getting nowhere.
The other man is out of the picture but maybe in the forefront of my wife's mind. I cant tell. I know she has a small connection to his business that she wants to keep a secret from me, and even though I have mentioned that I am aware of it she has no intention of bringing me up to speed on the matter.
We now have a quite life of bring up our son, me working and paying the bills, buying flowers occasionally and even jewelry for our wedding anniversary. I cook every day and give her hugs and kisses. Dinner dates [with baby] and I take baby out on outing often to give her some time to herself. I am sure I am smothering her as she gets angry with my attention and constant questions.
Even though she wants my opinion on her new clothing choices and asks me about how nice she looks, she continues to be a cold fish towards me even though she maintains our relationship with motherly and household duties.
I hold her tight often multiple times a day and ask her how we can move ahead towards being a successful and happy family but she refuses to answer in any way. I am trying so hard to understand her.
How do I break down this wall she has between us? In my mind I'm being the perfect husband doing his duty.
The other man is out of the picture but maybe in the forefront of my wife's mind. I cant tell. I know she has a small connection to his business that she wants to keep a secret from me, and even though I have mentioned that I am aware of it she has no intention of bringing me up to speed on the matter.
We now have a quite life of bring up our son, me working and paying the bills, buying flowers occasionally and even jewelry for our wedding anniversary. I cook every day and give her hugs and kisses. Dinner dates [with baby] and I take baby out on outing often to give her some time to herself. I am sure I am smothering her as she gets angry with my attention and constant questions.
Even though she wants my opinion on her new clothing choices and asks me about how nice she looks, she continues to be a cold fish towards me even though she maintains our relationship with motherly and household duties.
I hold her tight often multiple times a day and ask her how we can move ahead towards being a successful and happy family but she refuses to answer in any way. I am trying so hard to understand her.
How do I break down this wall she has between us? In my mind I'm being the perfect husband doing his duty.