Let me start by saying, I am against cheating at all costs, I believe in counseling, and working things out, otherwise, get a damn divorce and please stop ruining peoples mental stability for you're own joy ride. When I met the man I'm with now, I full out nagged, bitched, and criticized him for ever trying to pick up women, never did I think I'd be in his arms.
He dated for a long period of his marriage with other women. He got married to his wife when she was 19 and he 24, due to her getting pregnant. I've tried several times to leave him, but I love him, and every time I gather the strength to do so, he looks hurt and he makes efforts to change so I see him more. He spends a lot of money on me, and even after 3 weeks of dating he got me a beautiful, very expensive necklace.
We're now on our 3rd month, and about 3 weeks ago he had been having recent problems with his marriage. We were at dinner having a glass of wine, and he told me they were separating, they agreed that they'll never work out anything if they don't split. He was looking forward to it for the most part, though upset about not seeing his daughter as much.
Three weeks later, nothing has changed, I bumbarded him with questions, telling him that I'm not going to wait around for this crap. He told me that with his film ( he's a director ) and working on it constantly he doesn't have the energy to stop and think about a separation because of how draining it was. I also asked him if him and his wife have talked about the separation since, he said no, it was a sensitive topic. He did tell me that she doesn't want to let go. I really want to sting him bad, leave, have him miserable without me realize that at his age he's either got to leave his wife or work it out.
Oh, we have serious plans on going to Spain the first week of July...
Any thoughts from other married men?