by Scott Haltzman » Sat Jul 30, 2011 7:47 am
It sounds like your wife has the problem. Do you maintain a policy of transparency with her? Can she read your email and texts?
Sometimes you have to juggle saving your reputation with saving your marriage. If she's mistaken, that's not quite the same as being a liar. Perhaps you can rethink how you defend yourself without having to put her down. For instance, if a boss accused you of not getting a report done on time, you can explain to people how he had not seen it on his desk, rather than explain to people that he is a bold faced liar. You get the idea.