by ThunderHorse » Wed Aug 06, 2008 9:00 pm
Search Love and Respect.
Chairs
Conquest, His job, hobbies, sports
Hieracrchy, the order in which he respects verious principles or people or positions
Authority, What you give him control over, in the house, the relationship.
Insight. valueing your husband's beliefs in Religion, Politics, Education, Current events. Women generally criticize each other's belief, and have no idea the effect a raised eybrow can have on her husband, if she seems to devalue his judgements.
Relationship. Just being with him, and saying nothing, doing nothing, but give him attention. He wants that as much as you want to be kissed.
Sexuality. Accepting his idividual, unique preferences, quirqy, recognizing the male need for images of nakedness. My wife almost always wears some top and pants to bed. I refuse to tune up the Air Conditoning, because she won't take off her clothes now, and it is worse when the Air Conditioning is working properly.
Women want something entirely different from what men want, and they speak a different language.