My partner hates me
Posted: Wed Mar 28, 2012 12:55 am
I am not married. My fiance (FH) and I were supposed to be getting married in a few months time however we had a huge argument and now I have no idea where you relationship is going.
FH says that I am to controlling and that I want to spend to much time with him.
I agree that I have been controlling in the past I.e. Telling him I didn't want him to o out with his mates but that has all but passed. Everytime I make a suggestion I.e. Put sweetchilli sauce in satay he gets mad at me and tells me I am controlling him. I have tried demonstration to him that I eant him to have freedom and et but he just won't let go of past.
FH sys that he is done talking and trying to work things out and just wants things to change. I'm not sure what he wants me to do as he wot talk to me.
FH has sopped having sex with me. Originally he claimed that he wasbt horney but I caught him watching porn a couple of times. I explained that I am not ok with porn as it is an insult to me. FH jacks off eveytime I leave the house so I stopped going out so much. FH now gets shitty at me for not going out. I have tried to discuss how mch his actions are effecting me I.e. I cabt enjoy myself while I'mout but claims that it's to bad and has No regards for my feelings. I now have no confidence as a women.
FH uses me not wanting his to watch porn as an example of me controlling him and he tells me he hates me aLl the time. I don't agree with porn ESP considering he knows that he can have se when he asks for it and I told him that I am willing to try kiby sex stuff and etc as long as it does not involve other women.
FH tells me he hates me all the time. I cant even tell him that we can't afford something without him losing his mind yelling at me. I dobt know what to do.
FH is a gentleman around my friends and family and whe n I have spoken about my probs with people I'm close to they cabt believe the way he treats me. He spits on me yells at me calls me horrible names and etc
I have asked him o go to See a councilor with me to work through our probs but he refuses And tells me I need to change as it is all my fault
Does anyone else have control/porn issues?
I have tried to understand why my FH watches it but he refuses to talk to me about it. Yhe pron he watches is standard porn. He always searches big boobs porn. I have size d so I'm not lacking ib that area
FH says that I am to controlling and that I want to spend to much time with him.
I agree that I have been controlling in the past I.e. Telling him I didn't want him to o out with his mates but that has all but passed. Everytime I make a suggestion I.e. Put sweetchilli sauce in satay he gets mad at me and tells me I am controlling him. I have tried demonstration to him that I eant him to have freedom and et but he just won't let go of past.
FH sys that he is done talking and trying to work things out and just wants things to change. I'm not sure what he wants me to do as he wot talk to me.
FH has sopped having sex with me. Originally he claimed that he wasbt horney but I caught him watching porn a couple of times. I explained that I am not ok with porn as it is an insult to me. FH jacks off eveytime I leave the house so I stopped going out so much. FH now gets shitty at me for not going out. I have tried to discuss how mch his actions are effecting me I.e. I cabt enjoy myself while I'mout but claims that it's to bad and has No regards for my feelings. I now have no confidence as a women.
FH uses me not wanting his to watch porn as an example of me controlling him and he tells me he hates me aLl the time. I don't agree with porn ESP considering he knows that he can have se when he asks for it and I told him that I am willing to try kiby sex stuff and etc as long as it does not involve other women.
FH tells me he hates me all the time. I cant even tell him that we can't afford something without him losing his mind yelling at me. I dobt know what to do.
FH is a gentleman around my friends and family and whe n I have spoken about my probs with people I'm close to they cabt believe the way he treats me. He spits on me yells at me calls me horrible names and etc
I have asked him o go to See a councilor with me to work through our probs but he refuses And tells me I need to change as it is all my fault
Does anyone else have control/porn issues?
I have tried to understand why my FH watches it but he refuses to talk to me about it. Yhe pron he watches is standard porn. He always searches big boobs porn. I have size d so I'm not lacking ib that area