Hi I'm a married to my wife for 13 years, we have 2 beautiful children, now we are at a point that we argue a lot about our feelings.
My wife does not believe who she is anymore, she told me that she is working on these issues and has had some demands that I have accepted, she needed a week off to be all by herself.
I later find out that she didn't wanted to be by her self. He had her brother coming to meet her and tried to have her dance/personal trainer come to meet her.
Let me tell you more about her way to find herself.
She met this guy the she had matured a connection with and they been talking about growth, speritual growth and emotional growth. This individual is a dance instructor and a personal trained.
My wife learnede to dance in his classes and trains with him on private.
She is telling me that while they are in training they talk about life, spiritual being, emotional situations and so on.
This is been going on 5 years now.
I begun to feel a threat to my relationship with my wife from this guy as my wife won't share any of her problems with me because of fear of my reaction, I have asked her to let me into her circle of life and she is says that she's not ready yet.
I have begun to lose my patience.
I broke down and I told her that has to make her decision. It's either him or me.
She told me that won't be neither of us. My wife is lost.
She now is questioning her sexuality, her religious faith, and her beliefs.
I'm at a point of exasperation don't know what o do anymore.
I love her and I love my family, this is going not too good.