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Appreciation

PostPosted: Tue Sep 04, 2007 1:19 am
by mary
I was feeling that my husband wasn't appreciating the things that I did for him and felt I was being taken for granted. I asked him if he would see a counselor with me and he insisted on seeing our Pastor. I agreed and thought he must feel that there is a problem with me also. (We weren't talking at this point, just resenting each other). The pastor listened as we both spilled out about not being appreciated. He made a suggestion that changed our feelings and we fell in love all over again. He asked my husband to bring me flowers once a month and asked me to drop everything I was doing when he got home and greet him with a kiss.....It really has changed both of our attitudes towards each other. Mary