New here and desperate
Posted: Mon Oct 11, 2010 4:27 pm
I've been with the woman of my dreams since Dec/09. In July she found I had been looking at online porn. Then I even lied about it. This is not how I am but I was very embarrassed. Since then I have not lied to her or looked at anything inappropriate. She felt like she was not what I was looking for but nothing could be farther from the truth. I love this woman with all I am and never knew love could be so strong. We usually make love 5-8 times a week. Even 5 times one weekend. Some time's it's difficult to want more sex after that.I dont often pursue sex and she feels like I do not desire her. Simply not true. I also have bad headaches that can sometimes kill an erection. I almost always have a bad headache after or during love making. She also feels like this is me not wanting intimacy. When we get along it's fantastic. But,she feels hurt and disgraced by thinking I do not desire her. I am getting help for my head but any other advise would be greatly appreciated. Also,she is planning on leaving me now. This is bad and I do not want her to go. I love her so much and I know she loves me. We need to fix this problem somehow quickly. I need to to know that I do indeed love & desire her.