One manner of being disrepectful is when my wife decides to point out some aspect of reality, from a perspective, from which I am wrong, or otherwise fall short. I call this "Make-Wrong".
Money and God can be used to find some way, in which I am wrong.
Money: I should have shopped longer for a better brgain. I spnet more than necessary on whatever I might have bought.
Religion. There is some aspect of faith for which I am not devoting as much of my life to some aspect, as possible, or ideal.
But there is an ODD aspect to things. Oppositional Defiant Disorder. I personally enjoy making other people appear wrong. I enjoy showing my boss he is wrong. But I recognize this natural impulse of defiance in myself, and discipline myself to avoid contradicing people at work. My wife and son have the Oppositional Defiant tendency, and I understand their perspective, but it is annoying that they do not admit their tendencies. If my wife and son could admit their oppositional tendencies, they could get along better. It is annoying that they sometimes use frivolous reasons to justify opposing my ideas, just to be oppositional.
So I try to state my suggestions in a calm manner, and work through the objections they raise. By persevering, I usaully outlast their oppositonal natures, and arrive at some halfway reasonable compromise.