My husband drinks and says rude things to the family
Posted: Sun Dec 27, 2009 3:10 pm
I am new to this so please be patient as I try to let it all out. I've been married for 10 years. My husband is a good man except for one big flaw. He drinks a lot on his days off (Weekend) and when he drinks he will say some rude things. I hate an alcoholic as my father was one and my oldest sister. I am so tired and I don't know how much I can take. I grab my forehead and said Jesus please make him stop drinking as he accused me of hiding his E&J. He responded by saying f... Jesus. I don't think he ment it or would of said it had he been sober. I am so angry that I have not looked or said one thing to him since the statement. He knows how much I love the Father and the Son. I am having a hard time handling this. I feel like finding me someone else to love and the hell with this relationship. I look pretty good to be 41 and love to be sexual. But my husband can't seem to "enjoy" himself. I don't know if he has a lot on his mind or what. But its bad enough I don't get the affection I need but I will not be with a man who has not respect for God. I can not will not. I need some advice befor I go out and do something I might regret.