I will occasionally have an idea for fun with my wife, and if I fear that my wife will reject or ridicule my idea, then I often put such ideas aside, and never mention the list of ideas that might have been rejected, but for which new bounds of joy might have been negotiated.
So this is a start. I will try to put some of my wild ideas into words, and post them as I get them formulaed.
My wife called me a Dirty Old Man in hte middle of an argument the other day. So at least she knows the full range of my character and personality.
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