I'm stay at home mum of a 3 month old. Before we had baby there was an agreement between me and bf that i get up at night during the week and he gets up at night on weekends to tend to the baby. Feeds at 2am, 4am, 7am, 9am
bf is a tradesman from 8-1 mon- fri and a sport teacher 2-8 mon-thurs.
During the week he sleeps in spare room so baby doesnt wake him, on weekends hes back in bed with me for baby duties.
When it has been his turn to feed he will get up once then the 4am feed he asks me to do it then i do the 7am feed also, because he is tired. I recently said to him i am getting really tired and your not giving me any rest on weekends and that i would like it if he would do a 7am feed all week and i will do weekend feeds to share, his reply 'no way i work all week dont get home till 8 and you want me to get up early to feed, sure i do it if you dont want cable tv, internet, your car, air con. I will cut down my working hours if thats what u want. I pay bills, keep house running etc...how do you think (......)Does it her husband works 3weeks away 1 week home, 2 kids and she can manage to do it all and what about single mums they do it all alone, im here
he gets home from work and i have the house clean and his dinner ready everyday. I do everything in house wash dishes, clean, cook, washing.etc..i dont get to nap through the day like he thinks because im busy keeping house
all i asked for was a little help and i feel like he threw it in my face to the point where i wont ask him for help again.he offered to buy me clothes the other day i said no because i know that it will be thrown back at me too. I no longer want anything from him
am i being unreasonable to be upset