Hello,
I just got this news this morning. I am still in shock and quite hurt, but I do not want to loose this woman.
A little back ground.
I am 26 she is 23 and we have been married for a little over a year. I like to think that we have more good times than bad, but there has been one plauging issue that keeps rearing its ugly head. I tend to lie. The worst part is I am not doing this intentionally and it is about petty small stuff. Long story short this has caused trust issues with my spouse (rightfully so) and after getting caught in the last one she wants a trial seperation.
She has NEVER given me any reason to not trust her and has been nothing but wonderful. We still love eachother, but she just feels that she deserves better than this (the lying)and cant continue to let herself be hurt like this. I cant blame her and made an appiontment with a counsoler for myself tomorrow in order to try and find out why I continue this downward spiral.
I let her know that I am going to start counseling, but from her response I fear it may be "too little, to late"
Is there anything else I can do? I have tried to correct this issue myself, but other than sewing my mouth shut I fear I am just going to mess up again.