I have a very big issue here.
My relationship was going better and better, we were communicating more, i was paying more attention to her than in general, i listened and understood her and while i thought that we were slowly reaching a perfect state, she says that she's not sure is she wants this relationship now, she thinks that she'd like more the life on her own, in spite the fact that i helped her in the last time to get past a lot of doubts.
I asked her if she has another man, and the answer was no, and it was a sincere one, i know for sure, because the most important thing for both of us is honesty and even in the past, it didn't matter how serious of offending was what we had to say, we said it.
She said that she doesn't like to spend time with me like she did, and the thought of being without me doesn't scare her anymore, like it used to be.
I have to add the fact that in the past we worked in the same place and we spent almost all day together, but now the situation changed and we spend less time, almost 1/6 compared to the previous period. Changing the work places, automatically changed the colleagues and in the past we had the same friends, but now she met a lot of new people that i don't know...
That being said, i would really appreciate a piece of advice, because i really don't know what to do and what is the problem, because as i said, things were going better and better, we were fighting less than before, we understood each other better and we were more appreciative than before and suddenly SNAP!
She says she is not sure of what she feels and what she wants, but doesn't want to break up with me or to go with somebody else. She doesn't know what to choose between single life or couple. What can i do to remind her of what she felt or thought, and get her back on track?
Thank you for you help!