jackronald wrote:I. Everyday i can't sleep or talk to her. she wants me to quit every job i have so i can't meet with anyone. She hides my Cell and money.
. I dont know what to do? Plz help she is not willing to go to any counselor.
What is your response to her actions that you find objectionable?
Are you giving her an unintended rewards?
http://www.secretsofmarriedmen.com/phpB ... .php?t=583
In the Fith post down, I present the Boring Baroque Response. Boredom is the best response to avoid giving unintended emotional rewards to your spuse.
What needs does your wife have? You do not mention meeting any of her needs.
Is your wife crying out for you to meet some of her unmet needs? Which needs is she trying to fulfill with her expressions of jealousy?
What compliments can you add to the compliments thread for wives?
Who is supporting your wife in her overly-concenred jealousy? Sister, Mother, Hair dresser?
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