by ThunderHorse » Sat Oct 20, 2012 9:45 am
I would distingush between Oggling and Lusting. Lusting means to have a particular woman in mind, with the knowledge of how to contract her, and pursue affactions personally.
Oggling is looking at erotic pictures or videos, without any particular intention to contact the person in the pictures.
Many women do not see much difference between Oggling and Lusting.
Fo Men, Oggling is often a way to discipline themselves, to avoid any temptation of lusting after a woman with whom they come in contact, incidentally. Through oggling, many men satiate their desires and curiosity, and are physically faithful to their partner, with the help of oggling. The temptation of a man to pursue an extramarital sex partner is dimished by the man's oggling. Some wives are understanding of their man's curiosity, and have developed a tolerant understanding of the place of oggling in fidelity.
Some women truly find their male partner's oggling offensive, and may need to explain their higher level of feelings to their man, so the man can be considerate of his wife's feelings.
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