markharry wrote:Hi All new to this forum seems a good place to vent your problems. I really dont know where to start. Last year my wife and I broke up for good there was no reconilation been to relate tried all the blame game etc. It was over not looked back since in some senses it was the best thing I ever did. Near the end of the year I met this girl that was in a bad way. I have known her for a number of years only as a work collegue. She had split from her husband and was in a really bad way, I pulled her out of the abyss stayed with her had no relationship in that sense but made sure she was okay her kids were okay etc. At the start of this year we started a relationship. I told her I loved her vice versa I think she did. Anyway to cut a long story short we emigrated, moved abroad she loved it and always seemed to want to be in my company. I couldnt at this stage spend any time apart. Then she gets pregnant planned. She changes over night. Everything I do is wrong, everything i say is wrong. She jumps down my throat at every little comment. I did a few things wrong made a few social errors, got drunk a few times beacuse her father does it and we had a few rows due to this and other things. At the end of this year I have had to return to the uk to see my divorce through whcih is dragging on. When I left i was told how much she is going to miss me. For the first few weeks she did. But I know she has been flirting with her ex. She is moody and aggressive with me. She has decided to tell everyone that she has split up with me. Yet when I asked right out she just doesnt know. I have told her that I wanted to split up after a row something I withdrew three minutes after the row which was ureasonable. Now I dont know where I stand. Is this pregnancy hormones or something else will she return to normal after the baby is born. Please help
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